Alright, I am only posting here so I have some way to express myself. You may think I'm being overly dramatic, an idiot, whatever. I don't really care. I just need to get this out somehow and currently there is no person in my life I can do that to, other than the person this Blog is about… And what I want to talk to her about is this problem, which she is a part of in a huge way. So, here we go. Get ready for total drama-shit.
Alright, so there are three main characters here:
GF1: My first girlfriend
GF2: My second girlfriend
Me: Me
So as some of you may recall, I was with GF1 for awhile. It was nearly 2 years, I believe. Anyways… I ended it, being the fucker I am. So after 2 months, I started to date GF2. It was going great, until someone (*cough*myself*cough*) hinted to GF2 that I still had feelings for a certain girl… So GF2 ended it, and now I'm here… Girlless…
BUT, for the past month and a half I have been talking every night on the phone with GF1, and we have come along far. I've asked her if she wanted to get back together with me, and she answered with:
Now… For me, this comes across as "No I do not want to date you again. I don't love you anymore"… I've told her I felt like that, but she says she still loves me, she just wants to wait a bit before going "there" with me again.
Now… I've been thinking about moving to Saskatchewan (I live in BC right now) for awhile now. And now she is taking this as "I don't love you." and she's getting mad at me for it. I've told her I want to move, but I won't because I think I have another chance with her, but now she is thinking about never giving me another chance so I can "have what I want", which in her mind is me moving to Saskatchewan, even though what I really want is to date her again.
So now I'm confused… She's the most confusing thing I have ever seen or talked to. Nothing she does makes sense to me. Is it really worth it? I don't know. I know I love her, I just don't know if this is all worth it. She's said that if I do have another chance, it will be in a couple years. Should I really have to wait that long?
Blech… This probably made no sense, but I just had to get it off my chest, even if it is to a couple of guys on VuTales 
If you have any advice or shit, please post 🙂
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When she said she wasnt ready, i assumed give it a few weeks, maybe months. I was not expecting years.
I personally dont think waiting years for her is wort it. You may love her, but you have to do what is best is for you. Is moving is really something you want to do, i say do it. It will give you a chance to move on with your life and maybe find someone else. I mean…this girl cant expect you to wait around for years. That just stupid. If you were to come back years later and start things again, sure, but to sit on your butt and wait around for her, i think thats unreasonable.
but then again, this is just my opinion.
I was not expecting years either, until she told me that
She says it’s because she doesn’t want to get hurt again, and because she doesn’t want to “keep me from what I want”. (I think I said this before)
Years? Um…i wouldn’t say to do it man =/ but i have no experience to really give advice
“If you have any advice or shit, please post 🙂 “
LOL OKAY!
HIT IT THEN QUIT IT!
Do what? Move?
LOL OKAY!
HIT IT THEN QUIT IT!
Hahahaha
She thinks you’re as confusing as you think she’s confusing. It’s normal. Think of it from a 3rd party standpoint.
I’m thinking of giving an ultimatum, because I know if she doesn’t say yes in the next couple of months, we will never be together. I don’ want to wait and then, after years of waiting, find out she doesn’t love me or some shit.
I’m goin’ to give her an ultimatum tonight. If she still doesn’t take it… I’m moving in the New Year.
New TV show:
Little Blackboy0 House on The Prairie.
Corner Blackboy ;D
Nah, I’m just kidding. But really, if you have such strong feelings about her, you should see if she returns your feelings. Wait a little bit, but not so long that you start telling yourself that she’ll come back to you eventually; that shit isn’t healthy.
OMGBC?
I live in BC!
what part? :3
She says she feels the same way, she’s just not “ready”. K well, now she thinks of me more as a friend until she’s “ready”. She says she still loves me, though…
Surrey, you?
Surrey, you?
Advice that is maybe bad: To me that is BS.She probably DOES still like you but she is now looking at someone else. She wants to wait and see if they want to have a relationship so she doesn’t close herself off to you. I dunno man, it just sounds like a load of crap. =/
That’s what I’ve been thinking. The way she says things makes me think that exactly, but she denies it so much… She’s a girl who makes a promise, and keeps it. And she has promised that is not going on, but for some reason I don’t believe her. It’s just how she… Does things… I dunno. It’s annoying.
Maybe I will move.
From a 3rd party standpoint, I feel like I should move. I know it’s not going anywhere… I don’t really know why I’m even staying. We have too much shit in the past to actually be together again. I know it won’t work, but I just can’t get myself to make the decision and tell her… I know she’ll start crying and then somehow manipulate me into not going. It’s like that with everything…