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*sigh*
Is it me, or is VuTales reeallllllllyyyy slow lately?
Can’t complain though, haven’t really been contributing either haha

Well, a few days ago, I was just jamming at my house. You know, playing Space Invaders (getting pretty good at that game.) My plan was to play for a bit and then maybe smoke then go outside and see who I can find.

Thennnnnn like 30mins later I receive a text:

Yoo suppp?

“Not much.” I typed furiously (I’m hardcore.) “Just chilling & killing”

You see, this text was from this girl, I kinda had my eye on for a bit.
She was pretty special because a few days even before the events in this blog took place….I may or may not have hinted that I’d like to date her.

So anyway, while I waited for her to text back, I got up to go get my stash. While I was setting up, my phone vibrates.

Remember the talk we had a few nights ago?

I laughed to myself, other than remembering me acting like a fool I didn’t really remember anything.
“Yea, what about it?” I typed, then continued setting up.

Wait, are you high right now?

“Not yet no.”

kk, Well I just wanted to tell you that I’d only date you if you promised to start being sober.

FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK WHY CAN’T EVERYONE JUST LET ME BE!
“Yeah I quit drinking already. Went to AA and all :)”

You know what I mean lol

(Oh by now I was already smoking btw)

“Really?” I typed. “Why?”

Because it’s bad to do drugs lol. And it leads to other bad things.

Dismissing her ignorance, I thought about what my response should be.

I mean, I really like ganja. It does a lot for me. Like now, it helps get rid of my anxiety (GREAT FUCKING RELIEF!) for a bit and helps me relax.
At the same time, buying weed is starting to get a bit pricey,until I get a real job I’m doing stupid favors for my mom to earn money.
I hate forgetting shit too. Like eventually I’ll remember. But say I was really stoned for a day. It’d take me like another whole day to remember everything that happened sometimes. (of course I’d still remember the highlights but yeah)

In the other corner there’s this girl. She’s really cool and I like her a lot.

But yeah, I’m sure you guys see where I’m coming from at some level. Having to give up a good past-time for your love interest or some shit. =/

I didn’t text her back since then.Couldn’t think of an answer.

I’m sorta leaning in her favor, not because of her reasons, but because of my first negative reason about weed.
I mean, I already burnt like $200+ this school year so far on weed.

Coulda used that money on clothes,or CDs, or iunno video games.

So yeah, what would you guys do in my situation? (inb4 I’d never start;Quit cuz drugs are badd or any variation of those 2)

Also I wanted to ask Tarheel and Bryan what’s the rules on this type of content (illegal drug)?
I mean I talk about it a lot and I never asked what my limit is.
So far, I’m only running on as long as I don’t show any greens and how I got them specifically. Could use some clarification here 🙂

Anyway that’s it for me, peace guys. Have a good night/morning/afternoon.

~Nass

26 Comments

David 8 March 2011 Reply

I think as long as you keep it limited to using it yourself, it should be fine. Just don’t promote it. idk.

It’s illegal to possess anyway, so it probably doesn’t matter either way.

I wouldn’t sacrifice personal pleasure for someone else, especially at such a young age. Those kinds of sacrifices aren’t worth it, at least not yet anyway. Unless she’s some sort of person that’ll become the next supermodel/whatever of the world, and I know I’m being vain here, but I really don’t think it’ll be worth dropping an already developed habit, albeit a terrible one.

teebeehonest, I would actually discuss why your anxiety issues with her, I’m sure it’ll work out.

David 8 March 2011 Reply

Ffs, I hate it when you press the submit button twice on accident, it submits your post twice.

Add a check to see if the contents of the last two posts are the same, don’t let the post happen.

🙂

MasterCheeze 8 March 2011 Reply

I was gonna comment on your last blog saying why buy weed all the time when you can get video games, but I guess you’ve thought about that anyway.

Nass 8 March 2011 Reply
David said: I think as long as you keep it limited to using it yourself, it should be fine. Just don’t promote it. idk.

It’s illegal to possess anyway, so it probably doesn’t matter either way.

I wouldn’t sacrifice personal pleasure for someone else, especially at such a young age. Those kinds of sacrifices aren’t worth it, at least not yet anyway. Unless she’s some sort of person that’ll become the next supermodel/whatever of the world, and I know I’m being vain here, but I really don’t think it’ll be worth dropping an already developed habit, albeit a terrible one.

teebeehonest, I would actually discuss why your anxiety issues with her, I’m sure it’ll work out.

Yea I feel you, I feel you.

MasterCheeze said: I was gonna comment on your last blog saying why buy weed all the time when you can get video games, but I guess you’ve thought about that anyway.

I don’t get video games much because I usually end up hating them or getting bored and wanting to trade them in. But all I get is fucking store credits.*coughBlackOpscough*

DarkDragoon 8 March 2011 Reply

Smoke in secret and obtain woman.
win win?

Nass 8 March 2011 Reply
DarkDragoon said: Smoke in secret and obtain woman.
win win?

thought about that, also thought about that idea blowing up in my face

DarkDragoon 8 March 2011 Reply

No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

Nass 8 March 2011 Reply
DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

DarkDragoon 8 March 2011 Reply
Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Dest1 8 March 2011 Reply
DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Or, rape.

Nass 8 March 2011 Reply
DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Don’t like STDs

DarkDragoon 8 March 2011 Reply
Nass said:

DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Don’t like STDs

Use a condom

Nass 8 March 2011 Reply
DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Don’t like STDs

Use a condom

Still kinda risky

DarkDragoon 9 March 2011 Reply
Nass said:

DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Don’t like STDs

Use a condom

Still kinda risky

Buy a clean hooker

Nass 9 March 2011 Reply
DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said:

Nass said:

DarkDragoon said: No woman is good enough to abandon your worldly pursuits for.

But I love women more than I like weed though 🙁 Like women is 1st. And then weed is secirst (a mix between 1st and 2nd)

Buy a cheap hooker along with your weed. Ain’t that hard

Don’t like STDs

Use a condom

Still kinda risky

Buy a clean hooker

lol now you’re just being silly.

FunnyFroggy 9 March 2011 Reply

Yeah man. Ain’t no such thang as clean hookers brah.

Dustin 9 March 2011 Reply

Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

Nass 9 March 2011 Reply
Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Dustin 9 March 2011 Reply
Nass said:

Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Friendzone is a myth. If someone tells you they “don’t want to ruin your friendship,” they’re lying and they just don’t like you.

Nass 9 March 2011 Reply
Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Friendzone is a myth. If someone tells you they “don’t want to ruin your friendship,” they’re lying and they just don’t like you.

But you can’t date your best friend. It never works out.

Dustin 9 March 2011 Reply
Nass said:

Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Friendzone is a myth. If someone tells you they “don’t want to ruin your friendship,” they’re lying and they just don’t like you.

But you can’t date your best friend. It never works out.

Hardly. Most people marry their best friend. Haven’t you heard the speeches?

Nass 9 March 2011 Reply
Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Friendzone is a myth. If someone tells you they “don’t want to ruin your friendship,” they’re lying and they just don’t like you.

But you can’t date your best friend. It never works out.

Hardly. Most people marry their best friend. Haven’t you heard the speeches?

That’s because after dating them for a while, obviously they’re gonna be your best friend. See you date them while your good friends, then after a while you become best friends because of how much time you spend together.

Dustin 9 March 2011 Reply
Nass said:

Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Friendzone is a myth. If someone tells you they “don’t want to ruin your friendship,” they’re lying and they just don’t like you.

But you can’t date your best friend. It never works out.

Hardly. Most people marry their best friend. Haven’t you heard the speeches?

That’s because after dating them for a while, obviously they’re gonna be your best friend. See you date them while your good friends, then after a while you become best friends because of how much time you spend together.

I don’t get the difference. Either way they’re your best friend. Who cares when it happens? It obviously works out. Feelings develop whilst the friendship grows just as they do during the relationship. There is no friend-zone because you have to be friends for feelings to develop anyway, becoming a friend does not mean you’re counted out.

Assume, hypothetically, that string theory isn’t utter and total bull-shit. Now assume there are 2 universes with 2 Nasses and 2 Lady-Nasses. Assume in one you pursued her and formed a relationship with her. Okay, now assume in the other, you declined the offer and remained friends and allowed the friendship to develop. Now, in universe 1, where you pursued her, you were not “friend-zoned” and you developed as a couple, instead of as friends. And in universe 2, you do the opposite. Do you honestly believe the relationship developments were different? If you believe the relationship could fail because you’re friends, why doesn’t it fail when you’re friends within the relationship? If it were to fail, would you amount it to a failure of a relationship? Does being friends mean you can’t be together? No.

Anyways, that was total crap but yeah, you can be friends and form a relationship just as if you weren’t. Maybe even form a better relationship. It’s all in your head. The friend-relationship…relationship has been stigmatized. It only happens that way because you allow it to.

Nass 10 March 2011 Reply
Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said:

Nass said:

Dustin said: Get to know her well enough to make the decision obvious. If it isn’t obvious, don’t make it.

But if I wait, I’ll end up getting friend zoned

Friendzone is a myth. If someone tells you they “don’t want to ruin your friendship,” they’re lying and they just don’t like you.

But you can’t date your best friend. It never works out.

Hardly. Most people marry their best friend. Haven’t you heard the speeches?

That’s because after dating them for a while, obviously they’re gonna be your best friend. See you date them while your good friends, then after a while you become best friends because of how much time you spend together.

I don’t get the difference. Either way they’re your best friend. Who cares when it happens? It obviously works out. Feelings develop whilst the friendship grows just as they do during the relationship. There is no friend-zone because you have to be friends for feelings to develop anyway, becoming a friend does not mean you’re counted out.

Assume, hypothetically, that string theory isn’t utter and total bull-shit. Now assume there are 2 universes with 2 Nasses and 2 Lady-Nasses. Assume in one you pursued her and formed a relationship with her. Okay, now assume in the other, you declined the offer and remained friends and allowed the friendship to develop. Now, in universe 1, where you pursued her, you were not “friend-zoned” and you developed as a couple, instead of as friends. And in universe 2, you do the opposite. Do you honestly believe the relationship developments were different? If you believe the relationship could fail because you’re friends, why doesn’t it fail when you’re friends within the relationship? If it were to fail, would you amount it to a failure of a relationship? Does being friends mean you can’t be together? No.

Anyways, that was total crap but yeah, you can be friends and form a relationship just as if you weren’t. Maybe even form a better relationship. It’s all in your head. The friend-relationship…relationship has been stigmatized. It only happens that way because you allow it to.

Exactly, you can be friends and then form a relationship. However if you’re BEST friends. You’re better off staying that way, complicating your friendship with couple shit like sex and arguments will just lead to destruction.

Dustin 10 March 2011 Reply

If your friendship is cruddy enough to be affected by being a couple you probably aren’t very good friends. And if a relationship only causes arguments you probably shouldn’t be with that person anyway even before you were friendzoned.

Nass 10 March 2011 Reply
Dustin said: If your friendship is cruddy enough to be affected by being a couple you probably aren’t very good friends. And if a relationship only causes arguments you probably shouldn’t be with that person anyway even before you were friendzoned.

I;m not saying your relationship will be based on arguments. However, when it DOES happen, it’s pretty bad. Especially if they’re a childhood friend.

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